“No More Self-Sacrifice” series…

I’m honestly really terrible at self-promotion, but I’m excited about this series. I created it after 4 clients told me things like:

“It’s so weird. I just can’t seem to self-sacrifice at all anymore. I mean, I still help people, in fact I’m more effective than ever, but now it’s on my terms.” and

“Mary, after all the work I’ve done with you, I don’t bullshit myself anymore about my people-pleasing. If it’s not healthy for me, I don’t do it. I just can’t. That’s new for me.”

In this series, I will help you answer the following questions, and more:

• Why have I been willing to sacrifice so much of my happiness?

• How can I negotiate for fairness with the people in my life?

• How can I set easy boundaries that work for me, and what should I do when this is scary?

• Why do I sometimes not even know that I’m mad until I’m really, really mad?

• How can I change my mind and back out when I’m overcommitted?

• How can I stop automatically saying “Yes” under pressure?

• Why am I so tired?

If these questions struck a chord with you, check out my “No Self-Sacrifice Series”. I can help you to radically choose yourself, in the healthiest possible ways.

Will you still nurture others? Yes, but in ways that are in alignment with your highest ideals. In ways that don’t leave you feeling exhausted and taken for granted.

Confidentiality ALWAYS guaranteed. Some of my clients are extremely high-profile, and/or are mental health professionals. You're safe with me, no matter who you are.

I'm a queer, polyamory-friendly, kink-friendly woman, and a Relationship Anarchist, who has learned most of my life lessons the hard way. But you don't have to be any of those things. Everyone is welcome.

Feel free to message me with questions

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No advice is perfect for every situation. Want help figuring out your own life and relationships? I offer relationship coaching from a gentle, never dogmatic, trauma-informed, Relationship Anarchist perspective. I do all of my sessions through Zoom or by phone. If you’re interested, click on over to my Coaching page to see if we’re a good fit, or head on over to my Contact page and ask me questions.