Community meetings are temporarily canceled!

So sorry everyone! As of late April 2024, I’m having some health difficulties. I am keeping up with my individual coaching sessions, but I need to cancel our group meetings until I’m feeling better. Feel free to reach out to me via the “Contact” page, if you’d like me to let you know when meetings start up again.

Join us for group discussions! (temporarily canceled April 2024)

I’m Mary Clark, I’m a Queer Religious Trauma Coach (more about that here), and I live in Portland, Oregon USA. I host groups for professionals and non-professionals all over the world on a variety of topics. Most of my groups are about religious trauma, but a few are about Relationship Anarchy.

People join us from all over the world on Zoom, which can get tricky because of time zones! In an effort to have a meeting when you’re awake, no matter where you are in the world, each topic has a “Tuesday” meeting and a “Wednesday” meeting so that hopefully you can find a time to join us when you’ll actually be awake. The “Tuesday” group meets Tuesday evening in the Americas (that’s Wednesday morning/afternoon in Australia and New Zealand). The “Wednesday” group meets Wednesday morning/afternoon in the Americas, which is Wednesday evening in Africa and Europe.

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A quick video I recorded after a recent meeting of “Attachment Healing for Relationship Anarchists”. If you’d rather sign up for any of my meetings around Religious Trauma, those meetings are quite similar, so you’ll still get a feel for what it’s like to meet with us. Join us!

What People Are Saying

“Mary creates a true safe space for everyone to be exactly who they are and allows each person as much time as they need to work through their feelings and troubles. It’s been a wonderful sense of security during these very uncertain times.”

— Berneal: Queens, New York, USA

“Mary is a skilled and compassionate leader and she has created, and continues to facilitate, a safe, supportive group environment where people gather to hold space for each other. I look forward to each session knowing that her respect for everyone’s experience, her calm voice and her gentle honesty will bring me the healing I need in that moment.

— Isla: Oxford, UK

“I’ve participated in a variety of online mental health group & individual sessions, but the sessions with Mary have been the most helpful, hopeful, and encouraging thing that I have done. She is both incredibly knowledgeable, gifted in her work and also so relatable and empathetic.”

— Decnie: Chicago, Illinois, USA

“Her ability to so effortlessly craft such an authentic, vulnerable, caring environment is astonishing. I will be forever grateful that Mary has become such an integral part of my mental health journey.”

— Nikki: New York, NY, USA