“If I break up, she’ll make my life miserable.”
In ALL types of relationships, distance yourself from people you are afraid of!
Relationship Anarchy: build a healthy “web” of relationships
A dynamic “web” of relationships can be more mutually supportive than monogamy, or even some forms of polyamory.
You’ll never find fulfillment through someone else
It’s never going to work, you know. I say this lovingly, but if you’re looking for fulfillment through a love affair with someone other than YOU, then it’s just not going to work. Ever.
What I Wish for You…
What if you held out for the kinds of relationships where you felt really seen, and met, and held, and understood?
If Relationships were like Restaurants
Okay, hear me out, because this might sound shallow at first, but it’s really not. What if we viewed relationships a little bit like we view restaurants?
“I’m afraid I’ll be alone when I’m fifty…”
People sometimes tell me, “I’m afraid that if I maintain high standards in my relationships, then I’ll be alone when I’m 50”.